Let’s face it // Mondays stink. Or at least we typically expect them to stink. That is why, every Monday, I post seven positives from the previous seven days of the week as a reminder of what I have so that the week starts out on an upswing. There is much truth in the belief that happy people attract good things, so it is important to start the week out right. Sometimes it’s the more grand, but other times, it’s the simple things.
After last week’s vulnerability hangover, I’m choosing to be short, sweet, and vague this week because it feels just about right for now.
- Starting Over. After experiencing heart-break, the idea of having to start over yet again is one of the exhausting truths that hits almost immediately (dating blows), but at the same time, if taking the right perspective, it can also be exciting. I get to have someone who gives me his full heart and not just a part of it this time, and how can that be a bad thing? If anything, life is less exhausting that way. Sometimes I get stuck in this rut of a scarcity mindset after a break-up, but thrusting myself back out there onto the dating scene has given me all but a depleted pool. There are plenty of good men still out there; single women — do not give heed to the naysayers.
- Sitting. The timing of my recent move out of the city and transition from not so single to suddenly very single was ideal — the situation, maybe not so much, but the distraction was never so welcome. My sister and her husband are house-sitting downtown while renovating their East Austin home, but went out of town recently, so I agreed to house-sit and dog-sit for them, which allowed me to get out quite a bit, meet new people and old friends alike, and distract myself with good company in the thick of downtown Austin.
- Big Move. Though I loved living so close to downtown and being smack in the middle of both work and play, I’m excited for a bit of a change in pace out in the hill country. If you missed it, my roommate recently got a job elsewhere, had to move quickly, and I had to find a place to stay. Not sure where I want to move next (gross — moving), I decided to save money for a while in my parents’ vacation home on Lake Travis while they are still living in Dallas. It’s a bit far from civilization, but I could totally get use to enjoying my coffee on their wrap-around porch, having the lake right outside my door, and seeing the views of the water and hills out of almost every window. Le sigh. It’ll be a great retreat after a long day of work.
- Serendipity. I’ll be super vague here for multiple reasons, but life is so funny sometimes. I truly believe we meet certain people at a specific time in life for a reason, and the way I met someone this summer was quite hilarious and serendipitous, and I’ve enjoyed getting to know him earlier than I was suppose to (ha, that sounds so funny, and I’m not going to lie, it’s kind of fun being a little secretive about it).
- Kayaking. Surprisingly, I’ve never been kayaking before, especially odd since my parents own a few kayaks at their lake house. However, I went for the first time this past weekend, and it was great. Looking forward to taking advantage of having a kayak on hand at all times in “my very own backyard”!
- Last Days of Summer. Although my summer off is quickly coming to a close, I’m actually looking forward to seeing more of my coworkers again and starting off a new school year. We start again this Thursday and the kiddos come back in a couple of weeks. Bring it on 2016-17 school year (Can you believe this will be my 11th year? — eek, makes me feel old)!
- Happy. After all that I’ve been through (particularly in my romantic relationships), it would be easy for me to get stuck in the woe-is-me mode. However, when one is genuinely happy and able to find the joy in even the smallest things, no one person can change their outlook or derail their big plans. It feels really good to be in that place. Thank you (yes you) for your support, whether you commented, sent me a message, got me out of the house, bought me a drink, or even if you were just a passerby reading my blog; I am grateful for you and your heart.
I hope to inspire you to reflect on all you have to be grateful & that your week brings you even more positivity + balance + bliss! Feel free to share your seven with me as well / or even just a couple!
Have a wonderful week!